I Thought I Had a Daddy Complex

Turns out it was more complicated than that

Photo by Ihor Malytskyi on Unsplash

From my earliest days of being attracted to men (far earlier than was appropriate, I’m sorry to say), I have been drawn to older men.

This made perfect sense, of course: my parents divorced when I was pretty young, and it was my dad who went away. Far away, a plane flight away, which was a big deal to a family…