Great article! So many good points. My husband and I met when I was polyamorous, and he became one of my sweeties; my parents were (also understandably) very concerned when I told them I was openly conducting several relationships. When, a few years later, we became monogamous together, I think not just my parents but so many people thought Aha, you see, we were right all along, polyamory doesn’t work! NO. That’s not what we were doing, or saying. We’re grateful to this day for that period in our lives, and just because it’s not where we are right now, everything we learned then is still relevant to who we are and how happy our marriage is. There is truly no “one right way” to love others and to get everyone’s needs met.