And thank you! Your article is great, and you’re so right: not wanting to SHOULD be reason enough. I mean, seriously, shouldn’t it?

I do feel lucky not to have had much pressure. Or maybe I’m just kind of oblivious. :-) I have conversations — I just had one yesterday in fact — with people who were ambivalent but then they did have kids and oh wow, they would never go back, it’s the most amazing thing… I just think, Are they trying to convince me, or themselves?

Auntie Solidarity! :-)